For the Wall o' Looooooooove

You wouldn't know this by looking at my last few blog posts, but I seriously never much considered myself to be crafty, or had a whole lot of interest in being so. But thanks to the example of crafty friends, and a desire that started when I became a mother and felt like every mother needed to have some crafting abilities, I have delved into it a little more each year. I mentioned on my wreath post that I want to do a Wall O' Looooooove. And now that we are mostly settled into the new house, and I have almost everything I need for the Wall O' Looooooove, I'm determined to get it put up before this month is over. I know a lot of people are getting their Valentines crafts ready, but believe it or not, this wall is not just for Valentine's Day. This will be a year round display, because as my sister LoW, I LOVE love--and I feel like it should be celebrated all year long, with it's very own wall display.

With all that said, my latest craft to get ready for my Wall O' Looooooooove is this embroidery piece. I was inspired by this piece that I found by chance and absolutely loved. I'd never embroidered before, but basic embroidery looked simple enough. Determined to get everything I wanted for my wall done, I decided to give it a try.

I went to the store, bought all of the materials I needed for embroidery, and gave it a shot. It was a learn as I went experiment. And I have to say, I love the end product.

Now if I could just figure out why all of the washable pen isn't coming out, it would be perfect! Oh, and find the perfect frame. Something I probably should have done before I cut the fabric. But what else can be expected from a newbie?

It's the little things

I very rarely have good ideas. I could probably count my good ideas on one hand. Perhaps even one finger. So when I had this idea, I had to give myself a little pat on the back.

One of my biggest internal debates has been whether or not to get a recipe stand. The thing is...I hate taking up counter space for things. In fact, I'm constantly trying to figure out ways to get stuff off the counters (even normal things like toasters and paper towel holders drive me slightly crazy but I live with it) And even though I wouldn't need a recipe stand on the counter all the time, when I'm making recipes is when I want to free up as much counter space as possible.

So when I put my brain to work and figured out a solution, I was super excited.

Wall mounted microwave + magnet + printed off recipe = perfect solution!

And not only is it up off of the counter thus leaving me more space, but it's also at a great eye level. My other solution was going to be to glue a clip under the cabinets to clip the recipes to, but this one was much easier to execute.

So here's the thing...

A large majority of my family members (50% of my parents, brothers and sisters, AND nieces and nephews) are good at art. They draw and paint and do things that look amazing. This is, much to my dismay, a talent that was not bestowed upon me. Yes...it's very dramatic.

But nonetheless, I get ideas in my head. Yesterday involved an idea wherein 3 year old little jT would help me paint a most wonderful Christmas tree. In my head it was perfect. In 3 year old jT's head, it was something completely different. It was something a little like this....

Wonderful? Yes.

What I had in mind? No.

So, I took it upon myself to create the idea in my head. Then I realized that I couldn't even paint a Christmas tree the way I wanted to, that's how bad I am (in my head, the Christmas tree took up the whole canvas). So, step by step, I came up with ideas, until I ended up with this....

Wonderful? Hardly. But it's growing on me, ever so slowly

What I had in my mind? Not in the least.

Will it work for now? Yes, it'll do.

Does it give me tons more ideas that I probably won't be able to fulfill? Absolutely.

Apparently it's what I do

My last post was THREE months ago! So sad. I know all 2 of you have missed me, as always.

I come to you once again, with a wreath. This is probably my favorite. I love Santa belt decorations. I don't have nearly enough, so when I saw an idea to do a Santa belt wreath on Pinterest, I knew I had to make one of my own.

It was super simple.

All you need is:

wreath form (I know some people get the Styrofoam ones, but I prefer the straw ones that are wrapped in plastic. They are sturdier and cheaper)

red yarn

black felt

something to make the belt loop (I found some self-adhering shimmery stones)

hot glue gun

You just wrap the wreath form in the yarn, cut out a long strip of black felt for the belt and glue it on to the wreath. After that I figured out the center of the belt, and put on the stones in the shape of a belt buckle. BAM! Ya got yourself a Santa belt wreath!

I've thought about putting a "Ho Ho Ho" or something on there, but sick kids have drained all creative juices the last few days.

And maybe I'll post again in another 3 months with another wreath.

me...giving a tutorial...funny

I am absolutely not a very crafty person. So the fact that I am about to give a craft tutorial is absolutely hilarious to me.

So in just over a week we are moving in to our new house. Which would explain why I'm here, blogging a craft tutorial instead of packing and cleaning. It's called denial. But the thing is, I'm so excited to be in our new house and to decorate it. I have so many ideas that I know I won't be able to use them all. But one idea I am determined to do is have a "Wall o' Looooove" in our bedroom. It will be adorned with hearts, and flowers, and sweet antique romantic pictures and postcards. Although, I keep thinking that if it's our room, other people won't get to enjoy it, so maybe I should put it somewhere else. But then I wonder if people will just think that I keep my Valentine's decor up all year long. Oh, the decisions. But I digress...

I saw this super cute wreath a couple of weeks ago, and I just knew that I had to make it, or something like it. I went to Michaels last weekend for other things, and went ahead and got the materials I needed. They didn't exactly have the felt colors I wanted, so I ended up getting a huge sheet of red, and I'm so glad I did. Because now I know it will go perfectly on my "Wall o' Looooove".

And just so you know how not very crafty I am, so this must be easy to do...one of the things I had to buy while there was a hot glue gun!

So with all that said...here is how I made this here "Wall of Loooooove" wreath.

I have seen several felt flower tutorials, and finally figured out the best way for me, that is quick, doesn't require a lot of gluing, and I like how it turns out.

First cut a circle with your felt. Some people use something to get all their flowers an exact size, but I prefer to cut freely so I have different sizes and dimensions.

Then starting on an outside edge, cut in towards the center making it into a spiral. Make sure to leave a circle in the center. I like to cut it somewhat unevenly so that the top of the flower won't be flat.

Start rolling the felt starting with the outside piece.

Once I get the rolling started, I like to keep my thumb at the bottom of the flower to make sure the bottom stays flat and even. Some other tutorials will tell you that you need to give dots of glue every so often to hold it together. This killed my hand squeezing the glue and took forever. Turns out if you just hold it, it will stay together, then the last step will keep it all together.

You want the bottom of the flower to look flat like this. Then the top of the flower has more shape and character.
When you get to the end and just have the center circle left, use a hot glue gun to put a dab of glue on the last part of the outside of the flower to hold it in place.
Then put the glue all over the bottom of the flower.
Once it's covered, push the center circle over the back, thus holding the flower together. Seriously wish I would have figured out this way sooner, it would have saved me so much time!
And viola! Your felt flower.
The first one that I saw on the blog had a wreath covered in flowers that I loved. But I loved this wreath that I found at Michael's (for about 7.99 I think) and I didn't want to completely cover it. I made the flowers all different sizes instead of like the one I saw that had them the same size (mostly because doing different sizes helped use up smaller pieces of felt) and after gluing on the flowers, I added some leaves to some to add a little more color. And donezo!

birthday shopping and house buying

Apparently I break promises, because I promised myself that if I blogged on the Milan Maternity blog, I wouldn't deny my own personal blogs. Clearly, I have not kept that promise. I know all 2 of you are disappointed in me.

So yesterday I had the lovely opportunity to venture out on my own to do a little birthday shopping for little jC. He is turning 3 in a little less than two weeks. WHAT?!?! How in the heck is he already turning 3? That's what I want to know.

At any rate, I don't frequent Toys R Us, but it is the best place to look for toys. Being that they have a million of them all in one place. And it turns out a percentage of their toys are a bit...ummmm...what's the word I'm looking for?

Disturbing.

Now don't get me wrong. I think that being a stay-at-home mom/housewife is wonderful. But something about this just rubbed me the wrong way. I don't know about you guys, but...having a cleaning trolley is not "just like home". There was a whole line of products for girls from this "Just like home" line that had all sorts of unfortunate advertising on it.

And this one. I don't know what to say about this one. I guess your kids have to aspire to be something, right? (Not that anything is wrong with fast food employees.) But really??

Yes, really.

Can you guess which one of those 2 toys I got for little jC?

In non-distrubing children toy news, we are moving. In less than 3 weeks. (Which is why I should probably be spending my time PACKING instead of blogging. But when do I ever do what I should be doing?) We decided that since juC got his new job and we'd be staying in this area more long term, that now would be a good time to find a house that we have more room to grow in. (I don't particularly care to raise the 20 children I plan on having in our townhouse.)

The house is wonderful, and if everything goes as planned, we will be moving in on September 16. The best part about it is that juC will be leaving for 3 days the week we move. That doesn't stress me out at all!

So that has been the extent of my life since I last blogged. Birthday shopping for jC, and selling our house and buying a new one....ya know...the usual.

I put the "er" in expert

Did you know that I am an expert in all things maternity and motherhood related? You didn't? Oh. Probably because I'm not.

But for some crazy reason I've been given the opportunity over the next couple of months to post on the Milan Maternity blog. Milan Maternity is an online maternity clothing store. They also have stuff for nursing mothers, too. They started a blog about a year ago and post about all things pregnancy, baby, motherhood, and fashion related.

I will be posting there on Mondays and Thursdays, and have already done a couple posts! (entitled "kids clothes for less" and "documenting the baby bump"). If there's anything you think I should post about, feel free to let me know. And make sure to post comments on the blog, which you can find here:
http://milanmaternity.blogspot.com/
And I'll let you in on a little secret. They are doing a giveaway right now! So you better go and enter!

I feel the need. The need...for speed.

You know what feels good? Knowing that out of all the children your dad has, that you are absolutely his favorite!


For as long as I can remember, Sundays in our household growing up were spent with my dad watching NASCAR. It was the bane of my existence!! I really, really, really, really wish we had DVR back then. And I really, really, really, really wish we had more than one tv in the house in my earlier years.

MY DAD LOVES NASCAR.


So when I provided for him the opportunity to DRIVE an actual NASCAR car around the Richmond track, I automatically moved into the actual favorite child position. (My dad has this bad habit of telling all of his kids that they are his favorite) but now, I really actually am his favorite. Sorry everyone else.

Watching him speed around the track as he fulfilled his dream was awesome!! Now I just need to become independantly wealthy so I can provide him the opportunity to do this all the time.

Bless his heart

My poor husband.




He has donned the same haircut for years, and has relied on the same barber to maintain his haircut for years. I think he looks mighty handsome with his predictable short on the sides just a smidgen longer on the top style. It's the way I've always known him.

Unfortunately he was in a horrible hair cutting accident! You might think that this happened because he decided to go to a different barber. That is not the case. His barber just failed him miserably. And he is now the proud owner of a mighty long lock of hair right at the front of his head.

He's still trying to figure out what to do with it.

This is when he attempted a faux-hawk but he generally goes with a wave.

So unfortunate, isn't it??

We're calling it a reverse mullet. Party in the front, business in the back. Only problem is, no one is coming to the party.

Luckily, his ability to be a good husband doesn't rely solely on his haircut, so he is still able to make me amazing dinners like this one:

But trust me, he just hasn't been quite the same since the accident.

Happy Cinco de Mayo

When I say that it feels like a lifetime ago that juC and I got married, I mean it in the best possible way. It's hard to believe that it was only 4 years ago today.

I, with out a doubt, married the most perfect person for me. But don't be fooled. Our 4 year marriage isn't with out it's problems.

For instance, he still insists on trying to play footsie with me which I absolutely cannot tolerate.

See? Even we have marital problems.

But the good outweighs the bad. This guy makes dinner when I'm not feeling liking a chef. He does dishes. He takes out the trash. He takes little jC on adventures so that I can have some quiet time with luC. He surprises me with treats. He ends all of our phone calls with "I love you." He takes me on dates. He lets me buy new clothes. He tells me I'm hot (even when I'm not). He works so I don't have to. He fixes things. And I could go on and on. But the best thing is that he loves me...for me. Which is saying a lot, people!

I'm looking forward to all the years we still get to spend together!

Funny face Lula

You all think luC is worth winning a favorite photo contest, right? I know things like this are annoying, but vote for luC! If she wins, she'll get $250. That would buy me a whoooole lot of new clothes for her at my favorite consignment store!


Vote everyday!! All week!! And have everyone you know vote, too! She is currently in #326th place. Booooooo!!

Funny face luC: "Vote for your favorite kids in the Parents Cover Contest! One Reader's Choice Winner will be a finalist at the Professional Cover Shoot! Enter your own child today at http://www.parents.com/enternow !"

How do you know?

How does a wife know that her husband really loves her?

Some women need to get jewelry from their husbands to know. Some women need to be wined and dined to know. Some might need a car or two to know that their husband does, indeed, love them.

While some women only need a smile, a kiss, and a tender whisper of loving words in their ear to know that their husband loves them.

Me? What do I need to know that my husband loves me?

I need to come home on a Saturday afternoon, after spending the morning shopping with little luC to find some boxes, with a little note....


The contents of the box being a dozen cupcakes (minus one that little jC ate) from Georgetown Cupcakes (aka DC Cupcakes from the TLC show)

And then I know, with out a shadow of a doubt, that my husband loves me with every fiber of his being!

It's a big day, people!

You may be wondering what is so special about this day. The 5th day of April. Well, let me fill you in.

It was on this very day, exactly one year ago today that I found out this news:

It was one year ago today that I took a test, found out the big news, quickly made this onesie, and announced the big news to juC. I can't hardly believe that it's been a year!! Such a big day!

But I kept feeling like today was a big day for another reason, but I couldn't quite put my finger on.

I asked luC if she knew.

She just hung her head in shame and said "I can't believe you don't know."

So then I turned to jC

and he was all "Get with the program woman! It's your mum's birthday!!"

And then I was all "Ohhh yeaaaah!"

I had the most hardest time trying to figure out what to get my mum for her birthday. I wracked my brain and wracked my brain more. And then finally I figured out the perfect gift. (Hint: the perfect gift for anyone is always something that you would enjoy yourself) (The perfect gift is also edible and comes in any form of chocolate.)

Unfortunately, shipping is working slowly, so she won't get to enjoy her edible form of chocolate on this, her day of birth approximately 325 years ago, but hopefully she will forgive us and enjoy it when it comes anyways.

Happy birthday, Mum!! I hope you will forgive me for relying on my wee ones to remind me of what a special day this is!

Guessing game

Guess who is sleeping through the night.

And guess who decided to be a big boy and not throw tantrums anymore.Then guess who said he would take me on a super romantic getaway with out the kids.

And the biggest of all, guess who is expecting baby number 3.

I don't know the answer to any of these questions, but I do know it is April 1.

Welcome to my pity party!!

I'm so glad you could make it! This past month juC finally found a new job after years of trying to find something new. And if that wasn't exciting enough, I also cracked open my first double yolked egg EVER!

But, seriously...

In all honesty, I have mixed feelings about juC's new job. It's exciting because he will finally (hopefully) have a job that he can be happy with on a daily basis. And hopefully not have to work 10 or 11 hour days. But since it's still right here in Northern Virginny, that means that we are staying...for good.

I never thought I'd be raising these kids here.

For years now I've lived with the mindset that we'd be moving as soon as juC found a job somewhere else. And truthfully, that was my motivation for accepting that we are here now...that soon we wouldn't be. Now that he has the new job, I have to accept the reality that this is where we will be, where my kids will grow up, and where we will truly settle down. And since I haven't been happy living here for years, it's a hard reality to accept.

But I'm trying...and some days are better than others.